Monday, May 25, 2009

I am seventeen years old high school student. I have a boyfriend and recently we slept together and end-up with an unwanted pregnancy. I told my boyfriend and insist on getting married but he refused to be responsible for it. I feel like sharing this with my family but I afraid my father would just simply lose his temper. I'm really in a real dilemma now. What should i do? Should I carry on with this pregnancy or just abort it?
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  1. RahelehMay 26, 2009 at 6:55 AM

    Oh my god! What’s a sad topic?!
    I shocked when I was read your text my friend because it has a very bad meaning.
    Actually when you have gone to school you should be thought your lessons and every thing is coming from that because nobody hadn’t been help to you and you most support your future and now you have got dilemma in your life.
    I’m so sorry for you and unfortunately we couldn’t have any thing for you right now and perhaps your family absolutely your father could be covered your problem for a short time after that your boy friend should be do every thing for you because he is your baby’s dad…
    I think best recommend is you could be set one appointment between your parents and your boy friend’s parents immediately because you and your boyfriend are under age and they are so responsible about that if you hadn’t any way could be your future have came tragic story.


    Thanks
    Raheleh

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  2. AnonymousMay 27, 2009 at 7:08 AM

    I really sorry to know that you and your boyfriend have gone too far in your relationship. You're still a young girl and supposed to concentrate on your study. But do not torture yourself with guilt. Don't let the personal problem upset you. Everyone makes mistake. Please do not think of doing silly things to get rid of that problem. Explain to your parents about your trouble and difficulty. Tell them everything and show them that you're really regret of what had happened. Ask for their support and assistance. You also should ask them to meet up your boyfriend and his parents. I'm sure that both sides will come up with a good solution. It would be great if you can see a counsellor to get an advice and courage.

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